I turn 40 at the end of the year. I have been wondering what to do and finally decided on some plans and where to spend the fateful day.
My best friend and her boyfriend are in. My city friend is in. My parents are in.
And I send out an email about hotel info (there is a deal on an expensive hotel) and say “Most plans will be day and early evening so you do not have to stay but let me know if you are in for any part of the day so I can plan”.
Ok then. I guess I will plan for 6. Nice to know my “friends” cannot even answer that they cannot make it.