Last year, at the age of 38 I was diagnosed as ADD. I did see a therapist for awhile and I really wish I could still afford her. She recommending reading ADD and Romance.
I have slowly gotten through the book and it has been eye opening – why I fight (or why I have such a hard time fighting), why he feels ignored, etc, etc. Then I got to the chapter on sex.
The Man is frustrated with me as I do not orgasm like he thinks I should. He thinks it should be 5 minutes of oral and done. Well….not so much. I have apologized over and over for not being as easy as the other women in past.
And then the book explained it. And I cried. Because I cry every time I learn something that explains “me”. I mean, I AM broken. But now I know why and I can work on fixing it.
I walked into the bedroom, handed him my iPad with a few passages highlighted and got in the shower. And he supposedly read it and never brought it up again.
And that hurts.